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To Pee or Not to Pee

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icbe_bear_opt.jpg"If anybody says anything creepy to you, scream really loud."

Yes, those were my brilliant words of widsom as I left my 10-year-old son to go to the men's room at Fenway Park yesterday.

Just like moms with sons and dads with daugthers everywhere, I've been trying to figure out tho whole "when can they go into a public restroom alone" thing for almost 10 years. I still get flak from the boys when I pause to question the safety of letting them "go" alone, and I continue to question it long after the going is done.

Maybe it's because I kind of hate going places with large crowds. Or maybe it's because I really hate public restrooms. I mean really.

So when is a reasonable age to let your child leave your sight and explore the wonders of urinal cakes without a parent present? This story addresses the issue pretty well.

I tend to be on the relaxed side of stranger danger worries. I know most people who will do creepy things to your kids are creeps you already know.

But that won't likely stop me from standing outside the men's room door, listening for signs of anything creepy.

Final Thoughts on Stranger Danger

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My column and recent blog post about "Stranger Danger" have provoked a fair amount of discussion among my friends and family...and I thank many of you for your intelligent comments.  Just a few more ideas before we move on to another topic next week....

When I told the West Hartford Police Officer that I interviewed, Rob Riccobon, about my son's penchant for chatting up strangers, he said to me, "Well, you're watching him, right?"  And, he went on to tell me that dangerous strangers often prey on the children that seem to be alone...without a watchful parent in sight.  Honestly, I lose a life or two whenever I can't see one of my sons in the mall or on the playground...and, I'm pretty sure I'll watch them like a hawk 'til they're in college!

I also started to think about "trust"...and I believe it's an important word to discuss with children.  I said to my son, "You can say hello to a person and show them your Crocs or whatever. But, you can't TRUST someone you don't know.  You can't TRUST them enough to get into their car or take their candy.  You can only TRUST someone you know..."  I think he actually understood what I was talking about...and it made him focus on the difference between someone you know...and someone you don't.

I also found a very cute book at the library called "Once Upon A Dragon:  Stranger Safety For Kids."  It's also on Amazon.  Both of my boys liked it a lot.  It's fun...with a great message.

One last technique:  a friend of mine has given each of her children a "password."  So, if there is an emergency and someone other than her or her husband needs to pick them up from school or a friend's house, they can only go with this person if he/she knows the password.  Clever, right?

Please pass along any other ideas/thoughts about keeping our kids safe.

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Sarah Cody
My boys have expanded my world in many, many ways. I know I'm supposed to discourage potty humor but, truthfully, I find it pretty funny, too. Read more

Teresa M. Pelham
I am a freelance writer and mother of three boys. Unless you have three boys you can't imagine how oddly people react when they hear that. Read more

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